Killadelphia – a finale

December 31st 2011

With this post, I am shutting down comments on this site.

I don’t have the energy or desire or time to freak out about what goes on here any longer. It’s not worth it. No matter how many of us see what’s wrong with this city, it will never change. The mentality is too ingrained in the majority of Philadelphians. Go back to the infamous throwing snowballs at Santa forty years ago and you’ll realize that the attitude here is nothing new. It’s passed down from generation to generation like a malignant heirloom. We outsiders can’t change that. All we can do is try our best to not let it get to us and not allow their behavior to make us negative as well.

Those of us who are stuck here for various reasons simply have to get over our anger at what we experience. This shit hole isn’t worth having a coronary over.

Thank you to all of you who have posted comments venting your own frustration. Knowing that I’m not alone in my feelings has been a tremendous comfort. I hope that reading this blog has helped you as well. In particular, I’d like to give a big hug to Marie, Mel, Suzy Q, Krista, Vijay, Manny G (even though your last comment to Vijay was a little harsh – if he could get out now obviously he would), and any other frequent commenter I’ve forgotten to mention. My fervent wish for you all is that you can find peace within yourselves while living amidst the muck.

Thank you to all those who have posted intelligently either in defense of your city or in agreement that you realize that there’s so many things wrong here. You show that there are good, sensible people here, even though our views might differ. As I’ve said from the beginning, not everyone in Philadelphia is an asshole.

Thank you to all who have left irate, senseless, vulgar, combative, threatening comments defending your city. Reading those comments always made me laugh.

In the end, no matter how you try to candy-coat and make excuses for it, Philadelphia is a mess of a city. Statistics are impartial; they don’t lie. The information in the article below is just one more example of why this is NOT a nice place to live. Let’s leave it at that.


http://www.philly.com/philly/news/136418593.html?cmpid=15585797

Kill-adelphia: Yet again, city tops list of homicide rates

BY STEPHANIE FARR & DANA DiFILIPPO
Philadelphia Daily News

ON THE DOOR into the Uceta Mini Market in North Philadelphia, a sign warns shoppers, “No Weapons Allowed.”

Inside, the message on a sign sandwiched between cigarette ads is even more blunt: “Stop. Shooting. People.”

The market sits at Stillman and Somerset streets, just steps from the scenes of two recent gun slayings that remain unsolved. But in the store, where you can buy everything from milk to motor oil, the signs are an ignored, endured part of everyday existence – just like the homicides themselves.

This is among the city’s most dangerous neighborhoods, where violence is as ingrained as the futility many feel that it will ever abate.

“I know a lot of people who got killed, maybe 10, I don’t know how many,” Marcus Henry, 29, said yesterday as he got his morning coffee.

Murders are up again this year in Philadelphia, and the city still has the highest homicide rate of the nation’s 10 most populous cities, according to stats provided by each city’s police department. At the same time, fewer murders are getting solved.

With a few days left in the year, the city’s homicide tally stood at 324 Wednesday, including the eight victims allegedly killed in previous years by West Philly abortionist Kermit Gosnell. Last year, 306 people were killed, and the year before, 302.

But despite the jump in homicides this year, city officials prefer to focus on the past. When they compare numbers, they go back to 2007, when murders in Philly were at the five-year high of 392. Looking at it that way, they get a 17 percent decrease in the murder rate from 2007 to 2011.

Police spokesman Lt. Raymond Evers said the department compares this year’s tally with 2007′s to see long-range trends. “It’s hard to get a trend between two years,” he said.

But John Coleman, shopping at the Uceta market yesterday, wasn’t buying the spin.

“They lyin’,” said Coleman, 25.

Mayor Nutter, at a debate during his 2007 campaign, pledged that he wouldn’t seek re-election if the 2010 homicide tally was more than the 288 killed in 2002. Then at his inauguration in January 2008, he set what turned out to be an overly ambitious goal of slashing the city’s murder rate by 30 to 50 percent in three to five years. He won re-election this year.

So, number nitpicking is de rigueur at City Hall.

“We’ve been pretty much flat for about two years, if you take the Gosnell numbers out,” said Everett Gillison, deputy mayor for public safety, who spoke for the Nutter administration.

Gillison said the city had been making progress, but when the economy tanked, the mayor was unable to implement some of his plans for reducing crime.

“We’ve had to make some adjustments to our plan,” he said, “but we’re committed to extending our commitment” to reducing homicides.

Comparing murder rates with the rest of the 10 most populous cities, Philly comes out on top, with 20.7 homicides per 100,000 residents. The next closest are Chicago, 15.7, and Dallas, 10.9.

New York’s rate is 6.1, and even notorious Los Angeles’ is only 7.8, though rates for some smaller cities – like Detroit, New Orleans and St. Louis – are much worse than Philly.

Numbers aside, officials have no unexpected explanations for what’s driving the trends. Some observers point to demographics.

Black citizens comprised 84 percent of homicide victims from January to June 2011, according to police statistics. Evers said he expects that trend will remain consistent once numbers are crunched through December.

“Responsibility has to be taken by members of the African-American community to address the issues that deal with this particular problem,” Gillison said. “African-American males killed by other African-American males is literally the elephant in the room.”

Chad Dion Lassiter, president of the Black Men at Penn School of Social Work, agreed: “Some of the black politicians in Philadelphia sit quiet on institutional racism and the black homicide rate. If I was giving them a grade, they’d all be in summer school.”

Police Commissioner Charles Ramsey laments the state’s lack of strong gun control. Firearms were used in nearly 82 percent of the city’s murders this year. Although shootings dropped more than 3 percent, more injuries ended in death, Ramsey said.

Retaliation also continues to be a problem, he said. Argument was the most common motive for murder, followed by what are categorized as unknown reasons, highway robbery and retaliation, according to police data from January to June.

Lassiter partly attributes the violence to the economy.

“People who have jobs don’t commit crimes usually,” he said. “Someone might drive [drunk], but working people for the most part don’t pull guns on one another.”

As for the falling murder-clearance rate, Evers said the department has made 221 murder arrests this year, down from 271 last year. “Our clearance rate was definitely better last year,” he said. “Unfortunately, when you have more homicides, there’s more jobs to go around to the same number of detectives.”

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Krista’s countdown clock

July 31st 2011

Just for you Krista….countdown of the days till you get out of Philly:

days
hrs
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12/13/11 Geez updating WP broke the countdown clock. Let’s wait till the plugin developer fixes it. I don’t feel like dealing with the code.

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Classy Flyers Fans

July 30th 2011

The following is a reader contribution. Anything in bold is my own contribution for emphasis:

“Hi, after discovering your site and reading many of the testimonials about the classless behavior in Philadelphia, I felt compelled to share some really disturbing information with you. Due to who I am and the sensitive nature of the topic, I ask to remain anonymous.

I am currently working for the Buffalo Sabres as a moderator for their official fan page on Facebook. Every season we have to deal with the typical 3 or 4 trolling incidents from a couple of our rival fan bases. However, a full week before the Sabres/Flyers 2011 playoff series even started, we began taking a heavy assault on our fan page from literally hundreds of Flyers fans. When the playoffs actually started, it became thousands.

Not only were the numbers of people resorting to this type of behavior more than any other fan base, but the severity of the content they posted was worse than anything I have ever seen before. To highlight just SOME of the disgusting things they were posting, they:

- Told a 2-tour military combat veteran from Buffalo they hope he “dies in Afghanistan”.
- Verbally abused and threatened sexual assault on a female minor (16 yrs old).
- Made crude sexual comments towards female fans and wished cancer on another.
- Posted homophobic and racial slurs; the later towards Mike Grier of the Sabres.
- Made several credible threats of violence & death threats, towards fans and players.
- Posted pictures & video of the Clint Malarchuk throat-cut incident, bleeding on the ice.
- Several people “liked” the above image, and one called it “beautiful photography”.

The Sabres official fan page currently has 2,583 people on the “banned” list… and 1,629 of those were Flyers fans added during the Sabres/Flyers playoff series. When you’re dealing with numbers like that, the “few rotten apples” excuse no longer applies. It got so bad that the Sabres had to hire 3 new employees just so we could keep a 24/7 watch on the page, which was unheard of up until that point. I hate to judge an entire city, but we’re talking about 1,500+ people committing these acts. There’s no excuse. The people of Philadelphia really should be ashamed of themselves.”

And for anyone who will respond that every city has scummy sports fans, no one here has ever claimed it’s only Philly that breeds these idiots. OK?

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Philly Fashion?

May 23rd 2011

When I lived other places, especially Soho, I would know what styles were in fashion simply by observing other residents walking about. Going by the same logic here, I would assume that sweatpants and pajamas are the current fashion trend.

Then again, I am in shape and don’t have dimples where my elbows should be. Therefore I am not too lazy to get dressed before I go out.

Seriously people, it’s the world, not your house. Put on something presentable before you go in public.

And please remember it’s not the 80s anymore. The other day I saw a guy wearing acid washed jeans with a matching jacket. There’s no way to un-see that.

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Have a rant?

March 10th 2011

If there’s a topic I haven’t already gone off about, here’s your place to do your own venting.

I’m opening this up to you. A reader of this blog, another sane person who understands a lot of what’s wrong with this city, requested new topics. So this one’s for you, Mel. Have at it :)

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Parking woes

March 10th 2011

Why do cars park in the middle of some streets?

You know what I’m talking about. The cars that park between the yellow lines in the middle of some of the wider streets.

How can this possibly be legal?

Is this another one of those things I just don’t get because I’m not from here?

And don’t get me started on how impossible it is to find meter parking in Center City on a weekday afternoon. Yes parking in every city can be difficult and yes there’s the option of a pay lot. But come on.

On three dreadful occasions last summer and fall, I had to drop off a friend for a doctor’s appointment on (I think) 9th street by Chestnut. I drove around for at least a half an hour each time trying to find a place to park for a while.

Is there a secret to finding a spot to park on the street? If so please share!

The last time, after looking for an open spot for 45 minutes, I found a 20 minute loading zone down the street from where I had dropped my friend off. I pulled in at the front end of it, right behind the sign, very close to the car behind me, and waited.

After about ten minutes, someone pulled in front of me. He backed up until he touched my front bumper. Then he jumped out of the car and started walking away. I blew my horn and said “I have to leave and you just blocked me in”. Guess what Mr Charming Pants did. Looked at me blanky and continued on his way.

When my friend walked up a few minutes later, he directed me so I was able to get the car out of this tight squeeze. It took about ten minutes to get out. Not a bad woman driver thing. I know my cars. Meanwhile Mr Charming Pants has still not returned. Police cars have passed by and not ticketed his car for being parked illegally.

The thought of leaving a note behind passed through my mind. But that would have been a collosal waste of time. Sad sad sad are the oblivious people.

These things are just the tip of the iceberg. There’s so many other parking issues in this city. My head will explode if I try to write about all of them.

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